Here are 10 fun ways to flirt and initiate with your husband today: Send him a Spicy text on the ultimate intimacy app– Send them a text that tells them exactly what you are going to do together tonight! Be specific! Steamy Whisper Challenge – Lean in close, whisper something suggestive in your spouse’s ear, then walk away like nothing happened. Watch them squirm. Shower Surprise – Join your spouse in the shower unexpectedly—whether for a quick kiss or something more, it’s always a fun surprise.